ladies n ladies only!!! hv u ever felt dat thr r some typical bodily restrictions constructed n confined to our gender.... so much so that they r conditioned n therefore reside wid perfect harmony into our consciousness. if u feel this is the case... bring them out here.
[i got some responses from the guys as well n they wanted to share their views too. so i think the "well behaved Meow men" can participate ]
while travelling many times i c men easing themselves at the roadside. the manner is not of shame but of boast.
if women hv to ease themselves the first reaction is to find public convenience but its not so in the case of men.
[my aim here is only to point out the difference wid no good/bad binaries attached to the act]
whr r the meow ladies??? hibernating??? plzz come up with ur views... i 9 u must hv felt atleast one [if nt mny.... i hv a long list so to say!!!] of the bodily restrictions. feel free to bring them up.
well i talked to one of my frenz here, a gentleman with a young n perceptive mind regardin this issue n dats wat he replied:
w.r.t. discussion 'Just 4 women'
a) On a sultry summer afternoon, when we men feel hot we unbutton r shirt or even remove it from r body at d drop of a hat. However, a lady wudn't even dare 2 do so in her wildest dreams.
b) A man considers himself a macho when he uses a swear word even at d slightest displeasure without a 2nd thought. A lady, however, wud rarely b foul-mouthed even if she flies into a fury.
c) A man struts 2 a liquor store 2 buy himself liquor. On d other hand, a lady wud tread carefully avoidin every1's curious, even astounded, looks.
d) A man can flaunt his new hairstyle (or lack of it)-a shaved head. A lady can't afford 2 do so at any cost.
e) A man can return home late at night. But a lady would have 2 face a volley of questions from her folks if she turns up late.
i agree with all of them bt one.. I CAN FLAUNT MY SHAVEN HEAD!!!
i just hate the resriction on dressing up.there are certain clothes u wnt ever dream of wearing while travelling.u buy just because u liked them & they will be lying.dumped in ur almirah....i mean i wnt say its the parents who restrict u ( not in my case)....but well...when u get down on the road u urself just hate wearing that..u feel conscious because of the surroundings.well dere r many things...i agree i have a long list....this is just a starter
hey nimisha same here... u 9 my frenz always ask me dat wen i m out with them i wear very normal clothes whereas wen i m with my parents or fiance i can wear watever i feel... from spaghettis to off-shoulders... halter-nechs.... anything...n i tel them dat it is so bcoz i feel secured with them.
i wud like u to bring out te other things as well... lets c if they r common too
i second all,besides these there are many,like it is ok if a man is hungary he goes to a restaraunt and cooly eats alone and comes back while a woman has to search for a company,same if a woman wants to watch a movie alone.......................
getting in2 a bus...i mean i noe its funny.but i will think ten times before getting in2 one.if i have company then maybe i vil.but i feel really unsafe in a bus alone...over there ppl pass comments at the drop of a hat.....i vil keep on writing as it keeps on coming...dere r innnumerable...
i dnt 9 whether i shud speak it out here or not.... but then i think this is a platform to speak our heart out....
i dnt 9 y but i do feel y do v need to wear brassier??? i mean guys can wear sandos n all n sometimes can wear their shirt w/o it too. in contrast women cannot go w/o wearing the brassier. n sometimes it is so irritating esp in summers when even cotton n hosiery stuff make u feel so imprisoned into it... forget about flaunting ur cleavage wid a wonder bra... its only made 4 places where its too cold to make women conscious of something being visible in there due to cold... y cant women do w/o a brassier????
i completely agree.......wearing not a brassier is a sin for women.,,i mean it is so uncomfortable in dis hot weather.....y can men roam arnd without a shirt & ve have 2 follow dese rules created by our society...why.......i mean even at home if some men comes for some wrk or somethiing i have always noticed mum,grandmaa vil luk arnd r dere''chunis''.....i mean i dnt noe.y v cant live d way v want 2..........y r dere so many inhibitions.........& if someday u find a lady who try & live without such things she will be passed rude comments.....vil be posted as uncivilised... & wat not....dis is so disgusting
but i just wanna say will u b com fartable going lik that in front of other men in those cloths
its for ur protection
and there r even men who r shy in weatring just sandos or things lik that in front of girls
they wear shirt or something coz they dnt wanna show ill manner by coming that way in front of any1 atleast i will hestitate in coming front of a women who is stanger
plz dnt mind us saying andd ruchi as per saurabh said even boys should hav their side of story too y this discrimination here